We’re so excited to share this special moment with you!
As we begin our journey together, we’d love for you to join us in celebrating our big day.
Here, you’ll find all the details you need, venue information, RSVP, and more.
Your presence means the world to us, and we can’t wait to create unforgettable memories together. Let’s celebrate love, laughter, and happily ever after!
Our Story
Jakarta
A Summer in Jakarta
Two Indonesians with roots stretching to Singapore and Taiwan, home for the summer many years ago. We met in Jakarta on holiday - the kind of meeting that feels unremarkable at the time and inevitable in hindsight.
Boston · Los Angeles
Coast to Coast
Jeffin in Boston for school, Ruchelle in Los Angeles. We kept finding our way back to each other across time zones and semesters - seeing each other, figuring each other out, not yet calling it anything.
New York
Finding Each Other in New York
When life finally brought us both to New York, everything changed. In the same city at last, the relationship became something real - something we wanted to build, not just share in passing.
Napa Valley · November 2025
The Proposal
In November 2025, under the golden light of Napa Valley, Jeffin asked the question he'd known the answer to for years. She said yes - and now, surrounded by the people we love most, we can't wait to begin forever.
Welcome Dinner
Villa Subaglio
Via E. Bianchi, 1, 23807
Merate LC, Italy
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Thursday, October 08, 2026
6:30 PM
Dress Code: Cocktail Attire
Ceremony, Reception and After Party
Villa Erba
Largo Luchino Visconti, 4, 22012
Cernobbio CO, Italy
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Friday, October 09, 2026
Aperitivo Hour at 5:15 PM,
followed by Dinner Reception and After Party
Our Film
Ruchelle & Jeffin, 2026
Flying in from
Each light is a guest. Each arc is a journey.
Kindly Reply
Please respond by July 1st, 2026
Accommodations
Following the submission of your RSVP, we will provide the hotel details along with the reservation information. We are delighted to offer our guests a complimentary two-night stay. Shuttle service will be provided between the hotel and the event venue.
Arrival
Travel to Italy is not included, we kindly ask guests to arrange their own flights and their own transfer from the airport to the hotel. The nearest international airports are Milan Malpensa (MXP) and Milan Linate (LIN). We recommend arriving on October 8 so you are rested for the welcome dinner that evening. Once you are at the hotel, our shuttle will carry you between the hotel and the venues.
Ceremony
The ceremony will begin at 5:30 PM. Please arrive by 5:15 to be seated. Aperitivo hour with appetizers and champagne will begin immediately following the ceremony. The reception dinner and after party will start at 7:00 PM until late.
Attire
Black-tie attire requested. We also kindly request our guests to refrain from wearing white.
Transportation
We will be providing shuttle service between the hotel and the venue. More details and the schedule will be shared closer to the big day.